Firmly Reminded

     J and I have been talking about going away for my birthday at the end of November. He put in for the three days he would need off from work a week and a half ago, and instructed me to do the same.
     For some reason, this was not sticking in my brain. I would be thinking about it as I left for work, and then as soon as I got there, it just flew out of my head! Of course, once I'd leave work again, I would remember I was supposed to do it. So frustrating!
     He was so patient with me. I mean, really, really patient. He reminded me every day for that week and a half to put in for the time, and I just kept forgetting. Each time he asked and I told him no, I didn't put in for it yet, he would graciously tell me it was okay and to remember to do it the next day. Then, he would remind me in the morning before I headed off to work, too.
     I was actually surprised by the amount of leniency he was showing with this. I got really down on myself about it yesterday... he wrote me a note to remind me, and I put it in my purse, and still forgot! I mean, really?! I thought he was going to be mad. I thought he was going to punish me.
     However, he wasn't mad. He told me again that it was okay, but I definitely needed to get it done today.

     This morning, he pulled me over his knee for my "have a good day" spanking. It was light hearted and not too hard .. I so love these spankings before work! He even made up a little chant/song that he spanks to LOL anyway, once he finished his have a good day spanksong, he said, "Okay."
     I thought he meant the spanking was over, but he didn't move to let me up, so I stayed put.
     After only a short pause, he started spanking me again, hard. "Do you know what these are for?" he asked.
     "No!" I squealed, trying to wiggle away.
     "You don't?" he asked, continuing to deliver slow, firm smacks to my sit spot and upper thighs.
     "Nooo,"
     "So you'll remember what you're supposed to do when you get to work." he clarified. He gave me probably a dozen more swats, then helped me up.
     We hugged, kissed, and held each other. A few minutes later in the living room, J said, "Do you think you'll remember to put in for those days?"
     I nodded emphatically. "Yes! I just set an alarm on my phone so I'll see it while I'm there."
     "Good. If you don't put in for them today, you're getting a spanking tonight. With the loopy johnny."
     I felt my tummy drop. "NO!" I said boldly. "I just set an alarm, I told you .. I won't forget."
     "You don't need to tell me no. Just do it, and you wont have to worry about it. Saying no isn't going to do anything for you."
     I left for work with a sore bum and with full intent to put in for those days.



      Wondering if I remembered?





      You bet I did.