Just a Word?

     After writing my post yesterday, it sent my brain spinning in another direction. I started thinking about all the things that J does and says that put me in a more submissive state of mind. These are just a few of the things that put me in a better place:

• grabbing a fistful of my hair and giving it a firm tug
• making me look him in the eye (although this sometimes makes me feel extremely defiant and sassy)
• having me get the implement he's going to use on me OR
• not letting me know what implement he's going to use on me until he starts using it
• ordering me to do specific things like not put my hands back while he's spanking me or hold a certain position
• putting me in positions for a spanking that make me feel vulnerable
• either taking my pants and panties down, or instructing me to do it myself...both have similar effects.
• leaving an implement out for me to see it before telling me I'm getting a spanking
• making me eat regular meals (sometimes I forget, guys .. or I just dont feel hungry! dont give me that look) or making sure I dont eat junk (or cookie dough, mm) before an actual meal.
• telling me put to on something specific to wear when I'm being spanked i.e a certain pair of shorts or panties
• having to wait in position or bare for a spanking
• making me tell him why I'm being spanked, why I didn't do what I was supposed to
• when he makes me choose a card, and then has me read it aloud to him.
• if during a spanking, I complain that it hurts and he tells me that "its supposed to," or "it needs to be."
• he asks to see my butt the next day, or asks if it hurts still the next day
• squeezing my butt kinda hard

     I am pretty sure there are a bunch more but by now I'm sure you all get the gist. The majority of the ones I wrote are mostly intentional, I think, but there are others that I think he just does naturally. Another thing I love is laying down with my head in his lap. I feel very submissive in that position, and it is my favorite place to be. When I'm laying in his lap, the rest of the world melts away. Nothing matters anymore except that I'm his, and he is mine. 

      Okay, folks .. now it's your turn! Girls, is there anything your man does or says that instantly puts you in your place? Guys .. anything you do or say with the intention of getting her back in a submissive mindset?